Frustrated? Angry? Confused? Judgmental? You think they should do what?
Remember, your ego always wants to be better, stronger, smarter, and it loves to compare.
Examine what’s going on. Realize that your partner has the same issues. Their ego wants to be better, stronger, smarter, and also loves to compare.
So, when you feel tension in the air, that’s likely what’s going on. A dance between two egos.
Watch it. See it for what it is. And then give the other person a break.
And while you’re at it, give yourself a break too.
It takes effort to set your ego aside. And when you do you receive the biggest reward. You begin to develop a new relationship and it begins with understanding.